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Unknown Name Unknown Number

I am thankful for Caller ID.

I am starting to get paranoid about the unknown name and unknown numbers calls.

Sometimes they are telemarketers. 

I'm not sure the latest round of them are. 

They are not robo-calls. 

They are from a woman. 

The caller ID reads:

Unknown Name
Unknown Number


When I ask her name, she says Sharmaine, Shelly, or some other name that starts with Sh.

When I ask the name of her company, she pauses.  Sometimes she'll say "gifts".  Sometimes she'll say "decoratives".  Once she said "magazines."

She never gives me a real answer. 

She always asks for my work address and my home billing address. 

I'm suspicious.  I always ask her to take me off the list. 

She calls back. 

This last time, I told her that I have a stalker.  My phone line is monitored and I don't answer questions that detail my personal information.  I demanded that she takes me off of her list. I hope this is the end of it. 

I have to answer the "unknown name" and "unknown number" calls because the lawyer uses that, the police use it, and so do the people at the shelter. 

I don't want to blame my ex -but- the only working charger for my cell phone is in the van.  The others keep breaking.  My ex is the one that points it out.  It's an old phone and the new chargers for that model never work. 

He has my car, I can't charge my phone during the day. 

So, everyone has to call me at the home number until I can get a new phone. 

Now that this is the case, I'm getting a heck of a lot of crazy calls. 

I've never had this level of trouble with unknown callers before. 

I'm not so sure it is a telemarketer.

Usually, they would want me to contact them or visit their website to buy something.

IF I have this level of distrust, it is time to walk out completely. 

As for the car, my ex said he'd let me use the van today.

 He said he'd take the bus. 

I awoke. 

My van was gone. 

Watch, he'll bring it back after the courthouse closes.  I can't file until he signs the document anyway. 

He says he'll sign it -but- he never does. 

What a pain in the ass. 

I tire of this game. 

Tomorrow is Saturday.  It is the perfect day to throw a curse. 

It's going to be FUN for this old Irish witch. 

Hmmmmmm......Shannon and Doug claim to be Seventh Day Adventists.  I guess they would be honored if threw them a good old fashioned Psalm Curse and Banishing.

It is based in Christianity. 

I like that. 

Toil....toil....boil....and bubble....now is time to get rid of trouble. 

And...no...that sounds too Harry Potterish, doesn't it? 

People actually believe that crap. 

If it works to keep 'em away, I'll say and do just about anything!!! 

Love ya,

S. 

P.S.  The last time Shannon pulled this stunt, I had to *77 the line.  I guess my lawyer, the cops, and the shelter people are going to have to state who they are. 

So...there are tools. 

And yea, Voodoo works wonders with superstitious people! 




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