Today I am thankful that I saw emails from Shannon on the computer screen.
They make me sick.
So, Shannon has been emailing my ex whining that I won't let him talk to her.
He had one pulled up on the computer to show the lawyer we retained to help us get the documentation necessary for a restraining order.
I don't understand why she claims I won't let her brother call her.
How can I stop them from communicating?
It's not possible!
Really....
Again, I get the image of her trying to break into the house. Was she expecting to find her brother tied up in the bedroom?
Not a chance...I haven't tied him up since we were married and his mother and sister emasculated him with their abuse.
He lost his sex drive in 1998.
As far as all this talk about him being abused and tied up....some people actually like that.
He might not but other guys do.
So, if you find a married man tied up in his bedroom, let him have his fun.
I guess a morbidly obese 41 year old virgin wouldn't know that, though.
Sigh....
I don't get the claim that I'm controlling my ex's ability to communicate with his sister.
Shannon and her mother send letters to him at my address, I make sure they get to him.
They call and I track him down and deliver the message.
Damn it! We've been separated for over eight flipping years!!
How much responsibility do I need to take in making sure he talks to his bitchy sister?
Maybe they can try being nice....
Maybe they can try not breaking into my house....
Maybe they can try not following me around town...
Oh, and maybe they can stop following me when I'm with a man....
Seriously, maybe I could have fallen in love by now, pushed the divorce and not been too afraid to enter into relationship.
After this stalking bull, I'm terrified.
Years ago, it wasn't so bad.
If I get remarried, he would not have to pay alimony.
Now, I'm too terrified to look at another man.
Stupid Shannon!!! Stop stalking me. Stop harassing me. Stop giving the cops reasons to threaten to arrest your brother.
If you do these things, I bet he'd call you more often!
Maybe if his family behaves, he'll give them his cell phone number...
Maybe, if his family plays nice, he'll give them his mailing address.
Don't blame a man's ex if he doesn't give you his forwarding information.
Leave the ex alone.
I need that restraining order.
This has gone too far.
Love ya,
S.