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Good Men

(Take it from an old lady, there are songs that stalkers like.  This is one of them.  )

 There are days when spending a few minutes around crazy men make me appreciate an hour with a sane one. 


The lies flew yesterday.

The truth flag waved today. 

Don't get me started.  

I was told a line about my neighbor's heroics and I bought it hook, line, and sinker.  

It was a woman.....who ran to the rescue of the homeowner whose house caught fire.  

Someone uploaded a video to YouTube.  

I'll still be nice to my neighbor but I won't trust him much.  

And my ex....

He wanted to hang out here today.  He co-owns the house.    

Okay....

He wanted to argue....

okay....

I had a riddle for him.  

If his sister intended to break into our home, why didn't she just take the garage door opener that was in my unlocked car the day she allegedly installed the GPS box?  

My answer was incoherent as it was part of a rage storm.  

My ex put the box on the car.  

I may have to downgrade my phone.  

Can I get a flip phone?  

Those don't have GPS, do they?  

A PI said that the box I found was a passive GPS box.  This means that the person would have to remove a memory card from it on a weekly basis to download the information on the card.   

The person had to have access to my car on a weekly basis.  I let my ex drive my vehicle because his was falling apart.  My car went with the kids.  When he had them, he drove my car.  

My high school sweetheart made fun of me when I drove my ex's car.  My ex was so obese that he broke the driver's seat.  Please don't laugh when you read that the driver's side seat of my ex's former car was held up with bricks.  

I feared slamming on the brakes and having a brick hit a kiddo in the noggin'.  My car always went with the kids for that very reason.  We finally bought my ex a new one before I filed for a divorce.  

The PI alleges that my ex had to be the one to put the box on my car.  He is the only one who had access to it.  

The GPS installation job was not done by a professional because it was taped by the rear brakes and metal distorts the signal.  

It was my ex.  

The PI also warned me to never, ever speak to my ex about it because it'll just escalate things. 

Damn him!  I can never speak of it again.  I'll just find a way to buy counter surveillance equipment. 

The PI said that men generally GPS stalk their wives when they think they are cheating.

I wonder if mine wanted a show or something.


The cheating thing is not going to happen!  Especially not now since there is no way in hell I'm ever getting back together with the stalking meanie! 

There was a definitive day in January 2012 when my ex told me that he knew for a fact that I had never cheated on him.  

I'm sure he knows that!!! 

He's had me tracked and tailed like an animal.  

My life is bizarre.

I am awaiting normalcy.

May your life be all sunshine and butterflies.  

Love ya, 

S. 



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