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Facebook & Hotel Rooms & Lawyers: Oh, my!

 

Today I am thankful for Facebook.

Someone told me that Ms. Creepy stalker (aka Shannon D.) facebooked and tweeted that she is working out every evening at a fitness center in the shopping center where I buy groceries every evening.  The grocery store is a mile south of my home.  

What's weird about that?

Well... She lives in a town called Thornton which is 45 minutes north of my home. 

She works in a town called Broomfield which is over an hour away, it is north-west of my home.

She volunteers and attends a church in Golden which is nearly an hour away, again in a mountain town an hour north-west of my home. 

I can't fathom why she is here every day.  These fitness centers are all over the metro area. They're like McDonalds. I don't understand why she had to choose that particular one to visit.

Her relatives are telling me that the truck that sat in my driveway belongs to her boyfriend Doug.  I'm being told that she is the woman who tried to break into my home and that she is bragging about her use of GPS technology to stalk. She also drives a little white car not unlike the one I described sitting in front of my house not too long ago.

I'm also being told that her boyfriend Doug was the guy that followed me when I was having lunch with my old friend Thomas in my home town and went on to threaten the people in my office building. 

In the past, she pulled on a gun on my neighbors.  They were so freaked out, they ended up moving.

Okay....I'm scared.

And she's using nearly the same moniker for social networking that I'm known for. 

 I'm a tad bit freaked out.

  Today I am thankful for hotel rooms.

Once I escort the kiddos home from school, we are outta here for the weekend! 

What I find weird about the whole thing is that the man in the basement is begging me to stay put here and telling me that I cannot leave this weekend.  He doesn't understand that I don't feel safe knowing that his crazy sister; the gun toting chick who likes to threaten my friends and neighbors is hanging out nearby.

Why? 

Did he put her up to that because I'm talking to my divorce attorney again? 

Or maybe this is some stupid bid to keep the house? 

He can have it.  I just won't clean it now before he buys me out of my half.  Maybe I'll ask for the deposit I put down with my inheritance back, too. 

He shouldn't harass the housekeeper.

Look, I tried doing everything he wanted in a bid to make the stalking stop.  It got worse. 

Stick a fork in me...I'm DONE!

Today I am thankful for my lawyer. 
 
 
No more Ms. nice guy. 

Today I am also thankful for my reputation.
 
 
Oh, there is one more thing that cracks me up.  Shannon is running around telling everyone that she's never going to get caught because she has friends on the police force in my district. 
 
  
Hmmmm.....
 
 
If she's my stalker, doesn't she have a clue who I am?   She should know.  I'm sure she saw the papers. 
 
I'm the crazy chick who fights tax hikes in this city and argues with the mayor in public forums.  
 
If the cops save my ass from her, they can always point that out should I start bitching about their tax hikes in the future.  The media would have a field day with me!
 
They'd say things like
 
"Siegfred doesn't want a police department but who does she call when a crazy chick puts a revolver in her face?  She's lucky we have big government!  (and so on....and so on....and so on...). "

It is well established that I like the police department and will go to bat for individual officers but the powers that be like the arnarchist line too much and use it to paint me as a crazy chick.  This, in and of itself, will work against the person stalking me. 
 
Does Shannon really think that some officer is going to put his badge on the line to protect her?  No!!  He might use her but he won't protect her.   He could wind up with a pretty promotion.

Shannon will probably end up being a fall guy in this. 
 
If Shannon has honestly made friends with a peace officer in my town for the purpose of harassing me, she may want to step back and ask herself what is in it for the officer. 

This game may not benefit her at all. 
 
I could easily see me shamed in the media.  Her arrested and the cops tooting their own horns while the council easily asks for a tax hike because I won't be in a position to do much about fighting it. 
 
If I were her, I'd think twice about bringing her stalking to my town. 
 
Gotta go. 
 
Love ya,
 
S. 

Edit some time later:

Victim's Advocates are interesting folk.  I used to be one in the days before the internet, gps, and cell phones. 

They've come a long way in fifteen years.  They do a lot with technology now.

I'm being told that I'm being punished for talking to my divorce attorney and having another love interest.  They advise me to stay here until I can get a court order allowing me to leave unless I am in danger.

My leaving will only escalate things.   They're thinking that my ex is orchestrating the stalking in the hopes that I'll run to him.        

He's not the one I'd run, too. 

Stupid man... I know that is judgemental, but really...that is a dumb thing to stalk a person over. 

Geesh!

This is so stupid. 

I guess I have to find a new grocery store now.  What a brat!  I hope Shannon knows driving an hour out of her way to go to a fitness center increases her odds of dying in a car crash exponentially. 

Just sayin'...



 
 


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