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Today I am thankful for the truth but not thankful for fake friendships.

Ugh....

My Scorpio buddy, the cross dressing one, usually gets a birthday gift the first week of November.  

He's five years my junior. 

We could never be a couple because I'm too old for him. 

We've discussed this. 

He wants a younger lady. 

I've known him for seven years.  He chases off men who come on too strong.  We have the same last name, so people think we are related. 

He's my friend. 

He's an over-protective friend but

he is my friend. 

Well....he was my friend. 

This year he wanted homemade peanut butter cookies. 

I promised to send them earlier this year. 

Then, I changed my relationship status. 

He's angry. 

He's upset. 

He doesn't want me to fuss over him anymore because there is a new man in my life. 

I am so floored! 

I am so sad. 

I am numb. 

Since when does my having a love interest negate my friendships. 

It must've been fake. 

I pray he finds whatever he needs. 

Wow....

Love ya,

S. 

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