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Bittersweet Answers



Today, I'm thankful for bittersweet, half-baked answers.

Everyone who knows me knows that I've had issues with stalking since 1992, the year I started dating my estranged spouse.  In the past my sister-in-law, Shannon , always bragged about it. 

She was my prime suspect.  The cops and the P.I. say it is my spouse. 

Today I learned that I was right about Shannon being my stalker.  My brother-in-law, William, identified the man who watched my old friend and I have lunch as Shannon's fiance.  They started dating the month the stalking started up again.  I thought we had a four year lull in it but now people are claiming that Shannon's father was driving by our house in the afternoon. 

After I left a restaurant, a man I did not know approached me and said "Hi Satan".  I laughed and walked off. 

This tall man, with dark hair, went on to hassle people in my office building, holding my picture and demanding to know where I went to church.   He went too far when he threatened an elderly person in that building. 

Apparently, Shannon and her beau are running around trying to convert everyone to join what William claims is a cult in a city called Golden.   I was stalked in a city ten minutes away from the alleged compound. 

My in-laws knew about Shannon stalking me.  It must be a running joke. 

I'm shocked.  Well, not really.

I'm not sure if my estranged spouse, Mike, knew about it.   The problem that I have with this is that it sounds like the same story Mike told me the day it happened.  In that story, it was a friend of my old flame that wanted to convert me to a different church. 

The more I hear, the more I believe the cops.  The cops say that families typically only stalk in-laws if money is involved.  He stole $17,000 from me last year but I found out in late December.  He wanted me stay home to help him find a job but the moment he did that he locked me out of all the financial accounts.  It is not uncommon for me to get $30 for groceries every two weeks...for a family of FIVE! He makes good money!

I need to leave. 

Why would they put a GPS box on my car? 

This still doesn't make sense. 

At least sicko has a name-o and a location. 

I'm happy my old friend wasn't a target.  Part of me worried about that.  There was a little part of me wondering if he had an ex with a brother who had an ax to grind. 

It was just a crime of opportunity.  Mike mentioned his fears that I was hanging out with an old flame, word spread like wildfire and I ended up being watched by Shannon and her love. 

It'll be nice to get back to work.

Love ya,

S.  

P.S.  Okay....The joke is on me.  I did a little research and there is no cult in the city.  In fact the location appears to be a church that sponsors the Interfaith charities in the area.  I can't see how they would allow one of their ministers to stalk anyone.  

Maybe this guy is messing with my in-laws.  I sure hope not.  

This would be karma in action, wouldn't it? 

Shannon appears to be exhibiting false stalker syndrome.  I was informed today that she is claiming to be cyberstalked by a woman. Knowing what I know about projection, I'll assume she is cyberstalking other people.  I've got three computers.  Two are infected.  

Maybe....

who knows. 

Who cares?  

I'm on Facebook most of the time, so there is nothing for any cyberstalker to see there that the whole world doesn't see anyway.  The real life stalking only creeps me out because vulnerable people have been threatened.

If Shannon sees this, her brother makes it sound like she's being abused financially, emotionally and physically.  He's worried.  He makes it sound like she's in with a liar who is holding something over her head to keep her in her place and locked in his delusion.  That could, though, be projection on Mike's part. 

Seventh Day Adventists don't typically stalk or harass Pagans or Catholics.  They are fairly liberal.  Trust me, this guy is not who he claims to be.  I'm being told he's a minister.  They have pastors.  He's definitely not a sanctioned pastor of that church. 

If William is messing with us, his story is pretty good....urge him to write a screenplay! 

P.S.S.  No stalking allowed or I will have her and her beau tazed and dazed now that I know his name.  I'm really close to getting a no contact order on everyone in that family.  This is getting old.

I can't keep putting up with this. . 



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