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Cursing an Abuser

Today I am thankful for lemons, black candles and rusty nails.




This is funny.  I am at 7666 page views.


It is funny because I am feeling evil today. 

I spent the day babysitting my granddaughter while her mother navigates the court system.  Her boyfriend falsely accused her of domestic violence.  The things that are coming out of my granddaughter's mouth make me ache for her heart.  Somebody told her that it was wrong to cry or speak.  Somebody is emotionally abusing her. 

I'll give you three guesses and the first two don't count.


*****


I'm putting together a gray magick curse. 


Maybe I'll share...maybe I won't.


I did summon a dark spirit. 

I asked that he give the liar three days and nights of bad luck and torment. 

Now, I'm getting ready to cast the binding curse.  May the abuser feel what he dishes out 3 X 3 X 3. 

Do I dare share the spell? 


Hmmmmmmm........


Let me think about it.


It's probably more therapeutic than frightening.  Abusers shouldn't have any power over us.  We should be able to smash our pain away.  There is no reason to hurt anymore. 


I copied this from the web.  I will add to the ingredient list somewhat.  Horseradish is a good additive to a curse.  Maybe some sulfur.......and some saltpeter.....

I may do a blood ritual to the God of War, too.  Tuesday is the best day for that.

I'm a tad bit angry at the moment. 


I can tolerate it when I am abused but mess with my children and you're asking for a world of hurt. 




  • lemon
  • nails
  • paper
  • bowl
  • tea light [black if possible or painted black]
  • black salt [charcoal broken up mixed with salt]
  1. Roll up the paper as small as possible. Cut a slit in the lemon and insert the paper as deep as you can.
  2. Next take your nails, and slowly hammer them into the lemon saying this with each nail: Straight to the heart like all your hate. Suffer the anguish you caused me.
  3. Put the lemon in the bowl and cover with the black salt, saying: I curse you to suffer your misery until you learn the lesson to not harm those you love. 
  4. Light the candle, saying this: When this flame burns out, the curse will be upon you. It will not affect anyone but you. You will bear the pain and suffering of your actions. May it turn your heart.
  5. Let the candle burn out, and then dispose of the lemon, I recommend burying it or putting it into a water source like a lake or river.


Okay.....okay.....you caught me.  I'm not so dumb as to post an actual curse online.


This kid's mother claims to be a Bruja.   He believes in witchcraft.  He's superstitious.  I hope he's quaking in his boots.

Trust me, we make our own luck.  Jackarses and abusive jerks will eventually run afoul of the law.

They do get caught.

I also learned that the fight was over credit card charges my daughter disputed.  Her boyfriend had taken her card but didn't tell her.  She reported it as stolen.  Oh....no....he knows he's in a world of hurt.

I think it would be stupid to lie and arrest someone protecting you from doing time for theft. 


That's just me.  

There is another woman getting abused by this man, too.  My daughter received a Facebook message from her last week. 

I pray she goes to the police.  If she gets arrested, I'll do something so bad, they'll wish I just resorted to voodoo.

It'll cost them money.  I always fantasized about getting a ballot initiative going that would reduce taxes.  Maybe we could reduce the funding of this errant section of the police department.

It would help me channel my anger.  It really would.

Love ya,

S.







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