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The Sheriff's Office (With Edits)

Tomorrow I will be thankful for the Sheriff's Office.




Michael still wants the chairs. 


I drove out to pick them out of the trash at Steve's Condo one last time.


I KNOW Steve saw me.  I came by around 8:30 p.m.  I saw him walk across the parking lot.  I didn't want to bother him, so I slowed down and waited for him to pass by before driving to the trash. 


The chairs weren't there. 


I gave him a little over an hour to put them out. I went to the store to buy offerings for Isis.


They were still not there as of 10:30 p.m..


I'll call the Sheriff in the morning to ask advice. 


I'm sure the Sheriff will tell me to text him to ask him to leave them on his porch on Monday, so I can get them while he is at work.   You can't get a restraining order until someone harasses you at least twice in a short period of time or makes a threat on your life.  I'll do my best to honor his request that I never contact him again. 

Maybe the Sheriff will call him on my behalf. 


I tried. 


I managed to complete the a second round of the walnut clearing spell.  Tomorrow I'll ask Isis to send Steve where he needs to go. 


Maybe if I get rid of this stress, the other stress will go away, too.  I need the stalking to end so I can move forward with my life.  I KNOW Michael is stalking Steve.  I want to run off.  I want a new life.

I hurt but I'm still breathing.  That's something. 


On the bright side, I think I am too numb to feel pain.  I cry but my heart isn't pounding anymore.  I nearly fainted at the store but at least I could talk through the tears.  This IS progress. 


Love ya,


S. 


Edit:  Okay, the laws in Jeffco are the same as they are where I live.  You have to have at least one police report before filing for a restraining order. 


So....they liked my idea about texting Steve to ask for the chairs to be set on his porch so I can pick them up while he is at work.  If he doesn't respond, they offered to meet me at his apartment to pick them up. 


So....hopefully the game ends.


If restraining orders were easy to get, I'd have one against my stalkers.  I have one box full of answering machine tapes, letters, emails, and other garbage.  The problem is that she doesn't do two things within a short enough period of time to warrant the restraining order.  She usually has her friends or other family members do it and by the time I figure out who these people are, the required period of time for me to act has passed.   Crazy, eh? 


I have figured out that Michael is the stalker.  His sister just helps him.  She's scarier than he is. 


I really need the restraining order against her. 


Okay....so....here we go. 


Hopefully this ends soon. 


I am going to post my communication log with him here due to his threat to file for a restraining order should I talk to him again.  


Friday afternoon (1:38 p.m.) text message asking to pick up chairs from porch. 


Saturday morning (10:30 a.m.) call asking him to call my voice mail and tell me what day I can pick up my property off of his porch. I told him that I went to the trash area three times (after 10:00 p.m. so I couldn't bother him) and never found my chairs.  Due to his complaints that I owed him closure, I told him why I couldn't date anyone (don't want them stalked).  Said that if he wanted closure, he can leave me a date and time to call him.  I muted my Facebook messages and wasn't receiving them so he wouldn't take offence to me ignoring him (I was ignoring everybody).  I told him that he is a great guy and that it would be easy for him to find someone else.


If I do not hear back by Monday with information telling me when I can pick up my chairs, I'll send a registered letter to his place of employment.


If I do not have my chairs by Saturday, I'll have a sheriff accompany me to his condo to get them back.


I want this over.    The chairs are Steve's hook to get me to call him.  The chairs are Michael's hook to keep tabs on Steve.


Just give me the damn chairs so we can end this stupid thing.

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