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Being a Big Cat


 
*About the video

 His lawyer called me a Leopard.  Today I'm thankful that I'm a in the same league as a big cat. 

Abusive men like strong women. 

They like to cage them in. 

Do they ever wonder what happens when the wild animal turns on them?

Stupid boys make poor hunters. 

Bob Costas pissed me and legions of other women off yesterday when he stated that a victim of domestic violence would not have died if her boyfriend did not have a gun. 

This is not true. 

Ask the children of the women who died at the hands of abusive boyfriends. 

Stupid moron. 

Maybe he beats his lady love and doesn't want to give her the option of owning a gun for protection. 

Love ya,

S.


* I try to only post videos that earn ad revenue for the artist.  In this case, VEVO won't let me embed it.  I bought the album because the sound quality is better. 

If you like good karma and want to save your hearing, you'll buy albums, too.  Besides, people can always embed subliminal hypnotic commands in YouTube videos that make you limp and/or dry.  Unless you're a trained sound engineer, you won't be able to detect them. 

Think of that next time you rip a song. 

Love ya,

S.

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