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Today I am thankful for websites.




Today I was informed that my former sister-in-law was stalking me to run me out of the house and away from my children. 

I don't know what to think. 

I am visualizing this chick getting probed in the local jail.

If she comes near me again, that is exactly what is going to happen.

Oh..and yeah...there are several websites and forums devoted to telling mother-in-laws how to do stalk their sons wives.  They talk about wanting to get their sons divorced and living with them. 

I have heard this before. 

In 1999, I was told that the goal was to run me off so that my kids and then-husband would live with my  mother in law.  


Interesting.....

Maybe they are just losers. 

I am having a hard time believing that other people are going through this.

Is the internet a round up venue for crazy meddling old ladies to discuss and justify engaging in felonious acts?


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There are also numerous cop websites that talk about stalking as an escalating crime interview.  They give tips on how to discourage criminals before they can begin. 

I'm not sure if I have synthesized enough of the information to blog about it.  When I can write about it more succinctly, I'll share.

Despite what Michael says, I am still in danger so long as he lives here.

I may need to retain a lawyer to solve this problem. 

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There is a little bit of good news.  I hired a new mechanic.  He has basically replaced the entire suspension on my used car.  He did NOT find a GPS box.  I've had the car for six months.

I am realizing that this could be why my ex-husband never let me get my old mini-van repaired.  He insisted on having the work done himself. 

A mechanic would have found that GPS box before I did.


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The other day, one of my daughters heard a door open, heard footsteps, and then later saw a light turn on in the laundry room. 

She thought I did it. 

She was the only one home. 

The eldest, who is 24 now, had to come over to tell me that this had happened to her when she was home alone. 

On that day, Michael gave me a ride to the mechanic.  There were no cars in the garage.

Perhaps there is another GPS box on the mini-van.

I think Shannon uses the GPS box and the telephone to guage when we are home.  If the vehicles register as being miles away, she breaks in.  The day I caught her trying to get into the house, the garage was empty.

The cops say that she is the private name caller.  Someone will call the house and hang up when I pick up the phone.  The day Shannon tried to break into the house, I was on the other line and didn't answer when the caller ID showed a second caller as Private Number.

Yes, I was able to secure phone service in my name now.  The number will be private.  The older phone numbers are being ported to an online VOIP provider that will log every call for the police department.

I hope this puts an end to the nonsense. 

I don't know how much of this is hysteria, how much of this is my sister-in-law, or if this could be Michael trying to freak the hell out of me.

It will be nice getting answers.


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I am going to tear apart my ceiling fan.  It beeps every few hours.  The fan hasn't worked for a few years but perhaps I need to check for some suspicious object.

I've lived here thirteen years and have never heard any of the other ceiling fans beep before.


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I'm trying to deal with the money issue.  It is hard to imagine this woman and her family harassing me the same time my ex-husband is looting what was supposed to be given to me in the divorce.

The games are so stupid that it hurts my brain trying to figure them out.

My ex-husband and his family are not the only people in my life playing games.  Their games are the most dangerous though. 

The other games are just annoying. 

I'm looking into adopting a noisy dog. 

I'm casting a banishing spell. 

It's a super busy day today. 

Love ya,

S.

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