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Karma

Today I am thankful for karma. 

I am a horrible person. 

I let him kiss me yesterday. 

I did it out of pity. 

He has the flu now. 

I am horrified at myself because it wasn't his face I saw when I closed my eyes.

I know I feel guilty when my diet consists of nothing except chocolate.  

The flu is his karma.

My snug jeans are mine.

I've got to stop this craziness. 

On the bright side, he'll never try to do that again. 

I'm feeling icky.  It could be the flu.  It could be guilt.  I don't know. 

Whenever I get sick and see doctors or shrinks they do me little good. 

They give me drugs. 

I never get well. 

I usually see Shamans.  

I fear what they'd do to pull me out of this mess. 

I feel played. 

I don't understand this guy. 

He only wants me when I want someone else. 

Then he won't let me go. 

He complains and whines when I'm in the public eye but watching me in public turns him on. 

So.....

I don't know what to do. 

I'm looking for a new lawyer. 

The idiot we hired has done a fine job of dragging things on far too long. 

I wonder what karma holds for lazy lawyers? 

Hmmmm....... 

Love ya,

S. 





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