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A Warning from a Stalking Expert

Today I am thankful for the insight of other therapists. 



Well....


um.....


I spent this morning with a stalking expert.


Apparently.....uh....


[this is bizarre]


stalkers have been known to lay low for a few months, convince their victims that they have died.....and then when the person has their guard down, they  come back with a vengeance. 


So.....

I've been checking the obituaries......

I have found NOTHING! 

I was informed that the state updates the death index every thirty days or so. 

I guess I'll have to go there to confirm the death. 

Maybe this isn't over. 

I'll keep you apprised. 

Love ya,

S. 
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