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Serenity May Be a Restraining Order

Today I am thankful for restraining orders and new phone numbers. 

I hate to say it. 

Years ago, my stalking in-laws would use me as credit references without asking.  It got to the point that my brother-in-law told his creditors that I was his WIFE!!! 

Guess whose creditors are calling me now asking for dough?

I can barely get my ex to pay his bills. 

I cannot afford his brother's debt. 

Okay....there is something that I want to say to William D. 

  • If I haven't shaken your hand since 1996, I'm NOT a credit reference. 
  • If the only words I speak to you are to ask you to leave me alone when you are following me around town, I am NOT a credit reference. 
  • If your brother and I sat you down and told you to stop using us as credit references in 1995, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If I sent you a cease and desist letter in 2001 due to phone harassment, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If you received a second cease and desist letter in May 2013, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If your brother contacted you on Facebook in June 2013 and told you to stop calling my house due to a No Contact Order, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If you call my home and sit on the line breathing, despite being too dumb to know that I have caller ID and know who you are, I am NOT a credit reference. 
  • And, if your brother calls the number you silent called me from and gets your wife to identify herself, you've been caught.  If your wife refuses to let you talk to your brother, I would assume he is NOT a credit reference either.  You'd have to ask him. 

I am going to ask my in-laws to leave me alone...NOW!! 

Don't call my phone number. 

Don't give it to third parties without my permission. 

They know my ex's phone number. 

If this happens again, I'm getting a restraining order against the lot of them. 

And, uh....I know you're reading what I write...you stalkish jerks.  I know this because you haven't left me alone yet. 

I can prove what you are doing because people claiming to be bankers are leaving messages on my answering machine. 

I've used this number for 12 years.  My ex uses a phone number one digit off from mine.

In the divorce, we decided I would keep this phone number. 

Don't pull that trick again. 

I decided to get new phone numbers. 

Love ya more when you're far away,

S. 


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