Skip to main content

Serenity May Be a Restraining Order

Today I am thankful for restraining orders and new phone numbers. 

I hate to say it. 

Years ago, my stalking in-laws would use me as credit references without asking.  It got to the point that my brother-in-law told his creditors that I was his WIFE!!! 

Guess whose creditors are calling me now asking for dough?

I can barely get my ex to pay his bills. 

I cannot afford his brother's debt. 

Okay....there is something that I want to say to William D. 

  • If I haven't shaken your hand since 1996, I'm NOT a credit reference. 
  • If the only words I speak to you are to ask you to leave me alone when you are following me around town, I am NOT a credit reference. 
  • If your brother and I sat you down and told you to stop using us as credit references in 1995, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If I sent you a cease and desist letter in 2001 due to phone harassment, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If you received a second cease and desist letter in May 2013, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If your brother contacted you on Facebook in June 2013 and told you to stop calling my house due to a No Contact Order, I am NOT a credit reference.
  • If you call my home and sit on the line breathing, despite being too dumb to know that I have caller ID and know who you are, I am NOT a credit reference. 
  • And, if your brother calls the number you silent called me from and gets your wife to identify herself, you've been caught.  If your wife refuses to let you talk to your brother, I would assume he is NOT a credit reference either.  You'd have to ask him. 

I am going to ask my in-laws to leave me alone...NOW!! 

Don't call my phone number. 

Don't give it to third parties without my permission. 

They know my ex's phone number. 

If this happens again, I'm getting a restraining order against the lot of them. 

And, uh....I know you're reading what I write...you stalkish jerks.  I know this because you haven't left me alone yet. 

I can prove what you are doing because people claiming to be bankers are leaving messages on my answering machine. 

I've used this number for 12 years.  My ex uses a phone number one digit off from mine.

In the divorce, we decided I would keep this phone number. 

Don't pull that trick again. 

I decided to get new phone numbers. 

Love ya more when you're far away,

S. 


Popular posts from this blog

Stalker Proxy Phone Calls

What kind of songs do narcissistic stalkers sing?  I imagine they sing songs like this.   I am grateful now that I understand why the stalker has people call  but   wish they'd listen when I ask them not to call again.  I probably should document this somewhere.  My ex was talking to an old friend of mine from high school on a daily basis.  She is his cousin.   I had to quit talking to her when she'd ask me to plan parties and then refuse to give me the guest list saying that the attendees would only be me, her, my stalker Shannon, and my NPD mother-in-law.   She wanted me to plan interventions.   This happened with a baby shower.  It also happened with a wedding.  The in-laws put together a fake wedding trying to host an intervention to shame me and my ex into doing things for them (like quit school and give them my car).   I had to cut this so-called friend off over that in 2004....
Read more

Recognizing Psychological Abuse

Today I am thankful that I recognize relationship abuse.   I'm still sad. I thought Steve would be different.  For all the talk about anarchy and freedom, it simply didn't exist in our relationship.  I blamed the fact that I couldn't get my ex-husband to move on.  I blamed myself. It doesn't matter.  It is weird having my ex-husband explain to me how he took control of our relationship years ago.  Yes, he says that he knows what he did.  Yes, he said most men know the games they play.  Yes, most men do it for control. That is validating.  It's painful.  It's validating.  I know what my problems are.  I always do my best to see the best in other people.  I know that no one is perfect and that everyone makes mistakes.  My issue?  Well, I am too forgiving and I feel badly when I break up with someone for hurting me.  I couldn't take it anymore.  I couldn't.  I'm st...
Read more

Covid (Edited)

Today I am thankful for unorganized conspiracies: It makes it easier to identify them. Politicians are going to label anyone calling bullshit on the Covid lockdowns a Conspiracy Theorist.   I have a saying; " Conspiracies happen all the time; it's only a theory until it's proven."  This one is easy to prove.  It's obvious that the powers that be threw a lot of shit at a wall to see what would stick.  They're trying to inundate us with useless information and financial pressure to wear us down. That doesn't work on the indominable American spirit. ***** Let's work backwards. The CDC is now lumping flu, pneumonia and Covid19 deaths in one number.  Get this....the numbers have been declining for the past 11 weeks! https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/covid-data/covidview/index.html We are now below pandemic levels. Tell me why Governor Polis and his merry band of naked Democrat Emperors are pushing masks and pushing more lo...
Read more