Witchy Life Experiences

Today I am thankful for knowing what life experiences I DO NOT want to repeat.

 

 

I feel as though I have spent my entire adult life extricating my lovers' gonads from their mothers' smothering arms. 

 

I never want to do that again.   

 

My current love has somehow managed to allow his mother to control her grandchildren (his children).  This gives her a certain amount of control over him.  He has become her puppet. 

She has already (allegedly) made mention that he should leave "people like [me] alone."   That's enough for me.  I've not really been comfy with the relationship since my boyfriend told me that. 

Now, I'm less comfortable than ever.  It's a long story and one I don't understand.  Either he withheld information from me for some unknown reason -or- his mother withheld information from him.  Either way, it puts me in an uncomfortable position where I feel rushed into meeting his children. 

Now, there are general rules that I learned in social work school about meeting another single parents children.  Typically your relationship ought to be on solid ground for over three months before one does that.  We haven't had two months of a continuous romance.  I'm not ready. 

This man does not have custody of his children.  His mother has custody of one.  His ex wife the other.  He rarely sees them and his mother is the gatekeeper to time with his offspring. 

You'd have to kill me before you could do that to my babies.  If an old geezette wants a baby, she can adopt one of her own or try IVF.  There is no reason to steal your grandbabies....none...nada...zip!

Having a mother as a gatekeeper for your kiddos gives her an awful lot of unnatural control over your life. 

 

I will never again spend time with a man whose mother has him by the balls. 

 

Men who have puppet master mothers tend to allow their mothers to control their love interests. 

 

That won't fly too far with me. 

 

I'm a witch.  He won't like what will happen if his mother gets controlling on my path.  The last mother who did that went blind, developed RA, and her husband died within 48 hours of me lighting a candle asking that my stalker go away.  Sadly, the daughter picked up where my father-in-law left off.

 

In 1990, the woman before that broke into my house and beat me up as I sat in a bathtub. She was angry that the police caught her son beating the hell out of me. 

She left me battered and bruised.  She had an aneurysm and died a week later. 

Tommy's mother was a saint.  I'd love to see her win the lotto -but- she was always too saintly to gamble.  I think she is still alive.  She'd be in her 80's now. 

 

Please.....leave me alone. 

I inherited 4oo+ magickal artifacts said to contain Djinn and other wish granting entities.  It could be that one of them may be real.  I don't know.  All I know is that people who piss me off end up dead or severely injured.

I like to stay away from assholes because I hate funerals. 

 

I tire of casting wellness and protection spells for my enemies.  I just revoked a wellness spell I had cast for the City Attorney.  I can't handle the constant harassment he puts on my path.  He needs to leave me alone.  Why keep him well enough to continually harm me?

I don't date often but my boyfriends' controlling mothers have never fared well. 

 

Besides I'm too busy to play games with people like that. 

 

It's best to let the man go.

I like balls.  I can't play with them if his mother has them. 

I'll nurse my pain with vodka. 

 

Love ya,

 

S.