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Cheap Cell Phones

Today I am thankful for cheap cell phones. 


I'm a little bit freaked out today. 

My ex hasn't left the house in 72 hours.  He claims that he is sick. 

I don't know.  Maybe he is.  Maybe he isn't. 

He won't go to the doctor. 

After talking to a fellow stalking victim, I realized that my Android phone had spyware on it. 

My phone was accessing the 3G network and changing my settings all by itself.  It would install new files without my permission and my permissions on the phone were changing.  I thought I had gotten it wet but that wouldn't cause the problems it is having. 

My phone was hacked and has to be reset. 

The weirdest part of all is that my sister-in-law has turned up in places I was visiting.  One day upon seeing her watch me at a coffee shop, I found a protective shield for my vehicle hanging on the ground when I went into the parking lot.  I'm wondering if a new GPS device was installed on my car. 

I'm praying for a new car. 

I'm thinking they are using my phone to track me. 

They know about my relationship with Steve.  Okay, everyone knows I'm seeing him -but- my ex knows specifics that I do not tell a soul!  

It has to be the spyware on my phone. 

Today I am working on getting a new phone.  I bought two very old 2005ish era cell phones for my carrier.  I can't even text on them.  They don't have a prayer of getting any information about me now. 

 The moment I mentioned that to my ex, he fell ill and is moping about in his bedroom. 

I realized how the spyware was put on my Andriod phone.  I'm not happy about it.  I had the same password to my Google+ account that I used for Facebook.  Shannon had hacked my Facebook account numerous times.  I found out by inspecting my Facebook settings; there were log ins from her home town.  The day after I changed my password, I was locked out of my account for several hours because someone had tried to log in numerous times. 

If a stalker has your Google+ password, it is easy for them to go to Google Play and download spyware that can take control of your phone and/or activate the microphone (which could be how they know about Steve and I having certain adventures). 
Steve told me how to do a two part Google authentication process to put a stop to it. 

My hairs are standing on end. 

I'm shaking constantly. 

My ex has to be my stalker. 

I am terrified but don't know exactly why. 

I thought I should document this. 

I know he is blowing through my portion of our settlement to pressure me into staying.  I feel pressured into staying but the divorce is so far gone, it will be nearly impossible to stop now. 

I need a job that my stalker doesn't know about. 

Wow....

Love ya,

S. 

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