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Today I am, yet again, thankful for documentation.

I've had a couple of issues with my infrared camera system shutting itself off and on at night.

Most of the time when it shuts itself off, I get a notification.

I did not get a notification on Friday.

My ex visited the house to pick up the girls on Friday. The girls claim that he rang the doorbell.

There is NO video from any of the three cameras in my front yard of my house.

There is NO video of any of them returning - the girls, their father - NOTHING.

I usually get footage of bees several few times a day.  I didn't get one that evening.

The videos strangely stop between 1523 and 23:30 that night when the eldest came home from a date.

I'm just documenting this as I'm unsure what to make of it.

All it does is cement in my mind that my ex was involved in the stalking and harassment.

On the bright side, it would appear my ex is more technologically savvy that previously thought.

My questions are

How does one turn off wifi surveillance system while simultaneously disabling the video record function of an electronic system?

Why would one do that?

Love ya,

S.

P.S.  Oh crap, I found numerous videos on YouTube describing how to disable a wifi camera system.

I need to change the names of my wifi networks.  My ex named them.

It would seem that the cameras provide a poor sense of security.  I need unhackable cameras.

Luckily, I bought a set on sale last year and can easily hire an electrician to install them.

Damn....

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