Social Media Manager

Today I am thankful for my social media manager; he may have found a way to prove who my stalker is.

 

 

 

I hired a man from Pakistan to be my social media manager.  He's in the process of rebuilding my neglected social media pages.  He's accepting the reviews so they can be shown to the public.  He's posting my content and dealing with the crap so I don't have to look at it anymore.

 

We had a little disagreement.  I want to use my business name to thwart the stalking.  He thinks that I need to use my real name. 

 

He argues that I am a public figure.  People will search me out using my name. 

 

Using my name brings out the stalker!

 

Well.....he showed me that the stalker is already making himself known. 

 

All I had to do was go to Facebook and search myself. 

 

It appears that a Libertarian Party affiliate published some of my articles in their newsletters after I left the party due to their mistreatment of a self-proclaimed Pagan.  I'm Pagan.

 

I'm more irritated that the Party Chair allowed a stupid wily party leader in Florida to send out a very public press release claiming that a self-proclaimed Pagan with his eye on a Senate seat was mentally ill. As a psychotherapist, this is where I drew the line.  If it hadn't gone viral, I would have stayed in the party.  If the Chair would have spoken up, I would have stayed.

Apparently the Libertarian Party gives covert approval to harassing people party leadership believes are mentally ill - and to do so in the press. 

We do not harass mentally ill people in the press.

 

At least, I won't hang out with people who are okay with harassing mentally ill people.  I won't hang out with non-licensed people that do the diagnosing in the press either.

Paganism isn't a form of mental illness.

Besides....I respect the interchange of political ideas.  Democrats can be liberal.  Conservatives can be conservative.  Anti-tax curmudgeons can be proud to be anti-tax curmudgeons.  We all have a voice. If we all get the chance to speak, society may end up where it needs to be.

I have absolutely no respect for people who resort to gossiping in the press in order to silence a political opponent.  That is why I left the Libertarian Party.

I complain when Democrats do it.  I laugh when Republicans do it.  I give up on Libertarians when the so-called Party of Principle does it. 

I don't need a party label to fight a war.

*****

 

I did find a bizarre thing as I searched Facebook.

Someone leaves comments on the posts about me.  I can't see the comments.  These postings were made the same time that Steve's girlfriend was bugging me on the phone.

 

Politicians and political people don't typically block their opponents.  We have a tendency to keep our friends close and our enemies closer.

 

My opponents are frenemies.  I respect them as people.  I'd give them the shirt of my back if their house burned down (may that never happen).  Politically I'll take them down if I feel they are harming others.

 

The only people I've blocked are Steve Y., Steve's fake name "Steve Hensen", Michael D. and their families. 

I'm going to ask my social media guy to make a second account to try to get the IPs of the person making the comments.

 

Steve Y (the friend I dated who broke up with me every two weeks to date young women) threatened to stalk me if I left him.  He tried to choke me.  I left due to his bragging about hanging out with other woman while I slept during a camping trip.  I'm scared of STDs.  If you're tapping other things, I don't want a thing to do with you.

 

Michael blames Steve every time someone bangs on the door and engages in property damage.

Twenty four years ago, Michael blamed my other exes.

Who knows?

 

The camera doesn't pick anything up.

 

Maybe I'm getting closer to finding out who is doing it.

 

If Steve is keeping his promise to ruin my reputation should I run for office, I'll publish hundreds of emails he sent to me - nasty, evil, threatening emails.
 

It's a good thing he doesn't live in the UK: The things he says in those emails can net him a five year prison sentence.

 

It's a dumb new law.  Emotional abusers can go to jail for taunting and threats.  I hope the English legislators understand how manipulative emotionally abusive people are.  The victims will be the ones going to jail because abusers can manipulate judges!

 

This is why I hesitate to take Michael to court without a lawyer.

 

The lawyers are afraid to touch the case. 

 

I may have to take out a home equity loan and hire my overpriced lawyer friend.  Nothing scares him.

 

He agreed to help for $3,000.

 

I don't have $3,000.

 

If I could get it, I'd fix my car.

 

*****

 

I think I'm getting closer to finding out who the a$$hat is.

 

Another issue is that my daughter is threatening to move out of the house if her father doesn't move.

 

He's pretty much taken control of everything.

 

No one knows what is going on.

 

He complained to her that he didn't know what was going on so he had to buy me a Christmas present.

 

I try talking to him and he ignores or yells at me.

 

Talking is a great way to figure out what is going on.

 

If I ask him to leave now that he is unemployed, I'm afraid the stalking will pick up because his family will be upset at me for being callous.

 

This was the same reasoning I used when he fell out of the back of a tractor trailer and had to have surgery.

 

I'm not sure if he is concocting these situations so he can stay. 

 

The subpoena I received from Ascension Insurance/Ascension Health gave me an idea here.

 

I'm wondering if I could subpoena his work records.  If I can prove that he quit his job on purpose rather than being fired, I'm sure a judge would let me remove him from the home without fear of paying him alimony.

I just want to know what is going on.

The craziness is starting to get to me.  My garage door opener doesn't work.  I'm getting numerous silent breathing type calls on my personal cell phone, psychotherapy office number and (get this) my insurance sales number!!!

I took the insurance job to hide from the crap. 

When I left work, I found my car door open.

I want to know who the heck is doing this.  I don't know which events are connected to the stalking but the fact of the matter is that I have caught Mike's relatives watching me and harassing me in public.  I've never understood why they are doing that.  I don't understand why Michael doesn't stop them

The fact that it is going on and has been allowed to continue since January of 1992 is enough for me to be pissed off about it.

I want to know who is behind it. 

I know that I will eventually find out.

 

Heaven help the person behind it.
 

 

Love ya,

S.

Edit:  I've decided that I don't care anymore.  Mike still lives here.  Mike has been lying to me about what is going on with the stalking.  He refuses to help me put a stop to it.  He refuses therapy.  He refuses to talk to me. He takes liberties with my home and my time.

He's pretty much the only person who knows where I work. 

I've decided to go back to court and risk paying alimony for my sanity.  I need to get him away from me.  The two breathing calls I received today sent me over the edge.

I don't know if those were from my stalker.  The fact that they scared me is enough to make me angry enough to get myself away from the situation. 

If the stalker wants a war - he's got it.

I wonder if he believes in demons? 

Rumor has it that I conjure demons to attack lying jerks -  just ask Steve.  I'm sorry.  That joke never gets old.  I'm sure that his rumor scared off many of his intended victims.  I guess on some level, I'm thankful that Steve let his crazy flag fly. 

People are strange.  Maybe it's a good thing I'm alone.

Love ya!