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Quick News Update regarding Local Government (plus Wonderful Update)




Today I am thankful that the city is rid of the animal control officer who couldn't tell a German shepherd from a wolf-hybrid.  



The city threatened to kill the dog if it couldn't be rehomed at a wolf sanctuary (which probably would have been a death sentence in its own right)

It is fortunate that the family had the funds to fight.

So many families don't have money to spare. 

I don't know why the animal control officer is gone. My hope is that they didn't initiate an illegal fine to be rid of her.  I'm hoping that this woman is on to better things.

At least, from my point of view things seem to be getting better.

Now, if only I could find the time and money to help do something about the obnoxious and unethical pit bull ban.

Sigh....

I'd have hoped that lawyers would do something but I finally realize now that they profit from the problem.

It's going to have to be solved by common people.

It's nice to have something positive to say.

Love ya lots,


S.

Edit 09/18/2018

The new mayor is amazing.  Now there will be a ballot initiative to reverse the pit bull ban.

I truly hope this is the end of the mess and the murder.

Thank you to whomever put this into motion.

When I get my crap together, I'll do a tad bit more to help.

For the past few days, I've watched the news reports out of North Carolina.  It's heartbreaking how many dogs and cats were abandoned to drown.  Many good people worked to save these animals.

The question for me is 'how can people be expected to care about cats and dogs if their own government kills them for reasons that don't make sense?'

The government considers itself a role model.  So far, they haven't a done a good job.

This will be one step in the right direction.

Now, if only I can get real health insurance and afford a primary care doctor, I may be one step closer to an emotional support dog.  I think I need to get steroid shots.

The next post will detail why I need a support animal - I'm still traumatized by the stalking.

Love ya,

S.







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