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How Many Times Do I Have to Facebook Block Steve?


Today I am thankful for Facebook, it gives me a barometer to measure the crazy crap in the air.

I received a strange message today.  It was from someone who went by the name:

Preciou K O Love

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It was in my primary inbox despite the use of strict filtering.  It was from Facebook.  The message itself was blocked pending an identification request from Facebook.  This was the message I found awaiting me this morning.

 This message has been temporarily removed because the sender's account requires verification


This isn't the first time, I've seen this.  There was a guy who called himself Luvuby Earnest who harassed me on various social networks.  I wound up putting myself on lockdown.
So, I did a search for the recent people who have interacted with my profile.  I have many friends named Steve.  I don't understand why Steve Y's new profile came up first in the search results....all I typed was STE. 

My friend Stephanee didn't show up!!
I did some research on the Facebook algorithm and was informed that it appears to be due to who actually visits your page the most.

Is Steve (or someone pretending to be him) watching me?  Ugh....

I know he infiltrated my toastmaster group. 

Yes, I found myself blocking Steve as (Steve Y) for the third time today.  Someone has set up yet another profile for him (using the same profile picture he had when I met him). This makes three now.

I must have blocked people I presume to be him at least 20 times. 

He's either Steve Y (name of famous San Francisco/BYU football player)
Or Steve Hensen (like the puppet master).

He also goes by Liberty[enter his first name].

I also found two more accounts for his father, Larry.  I blocked them.  I also blocked his sister.

Now....to be fair.....I don't know if these Steve Y accounts are Steve or if these are my former in-laws messing with me by making fake profiles with Steve's picture or contact information.  I know people have made fake profiles for me on YouTube and Amazon to harass me.  It's not completely out of the question.

Do you want to see a fake profile?  If you know my real name.  Go to Google+ and type my full name in with the numeral 2.  You'll find one of my harassers.  That person was blocked for spamming people with messages on YouTube.

Mike says that Steve blocked him on both of his accounts. Weird.....are these guys still stalking each other? 

Mike also says that he thinks Steve is watching me to ensure that I don't tell the truth about the crap he's pulled with me.

I don't want to deal with negativity anymore.  I'm just going to block it.  The harassment makes me want to vomit. 

If Steve is watching me to make sure that I don't write ill things about him,  He is too late. I have a friend writing a book about dating people who act like sociopaths.  His antics at Phish may make it into the book...

the whole ordering dinner without me while I'm in the bathroom of a McDonalds and scarfing it down in five minutes, not giving me a chance to eat, selling my tickets and buying me one for the stands so he can hang out on the dance floor, and taking my money.....before running to Facebook claiming I was abusing him...and his mother...

and that he won't be responsible for the damage his parents do to me....lol.

Yeah, those antics. 

You know, I had to laugh at the idle threat.  I can make more powerful people than them quiet when I choose to speak.  I eat people more powerful for breakfast. Sadly, it always leave a disgusting taste in my mouth, even when I win.

Anyway....I did show my author friend the text messages threatening to stalk me and to ruin my reputation. 

I didn't tell her about the choking rapey thingy.  Maybe I should.....

I didn't even tell her about having the 25 year old he told me he wanted to f*ck call my home numerous times***.  Throughout the relationship, he said he wanted a twenty year old.  I wonder if he acted like a douche so I would leave him available for her.


She called me three times, pretending to be homeless. I tried to help her.  The third time she wanted information about her friend who told her NOT to finish college and who threatened to post naked photos of her online.  She named this friend as Steve Y.  She named our mutual friends and asked if I knew him. 

I warned her to stay away from Steve.  I told her that he was emotionally abusive, had a criminal background and to proceed with caution.  This led to a mini-Facebook meltdown on my page.  He left a long rude messages for me on my page under the name Steve Hensen.  He made it sound like we lived together and that I had to pick up my stuff.  He, under his fake name, called me a stalker. He blocked me when I clarified that the only thing he'd need to pack up for me was a couple of books and that if he mailed them to me I'd reimburse him. 

He never sent them to me.  Those books have since been replaced.

I battened down the hatches.

Then he had a couple of my friends harass me.  They wound up blocking me.  Don't piss off a hypnotist.  She'll bend your mind (unless you're too sick to be reached).

I'm about to leave Facebook over the bull.  I did notify the police.  I notified my neighbors.  They vowed to call the police if a short bald guy is messing with the property. 

It might not be Steve.  It could be Mike pretending to be Steve.

Mike isn't so saccharine.  He doesn't pretend to be sweet....Steve is the better actor.  Mike has family that harass me.  Steve isn't that sneaky. 

I don't care who it is.  I'm tired of it!

If you Facebook stalk your ex, you'll never get over her. 

I would prefer not to be reminded how tempted I am to conjure more demons for this man or whoever the heck is annoying me.

This person had best leave me alone.....pronto.  If he's piggy-backing on my ex-husband's abuse, there is nothing protecting Steve from my full wrath.

I have kids with Mike.  I won't hurt him. 

Steve.....well, I have no reason to let him annoy me.  It might be fun to take out my aggressions on someone.

Sigh...

******

I was offered a job yesterday by someone who found me on LinkedIn.  Well....his name is also Steve.  I turned it down because this man wants a good Christian lady.  I am not that.  Yes, it was an illegal thing to ask me.  I told him that I had concerns about being a good fit.  I think he gave my name to a competitor because a woman just called and asked me to interview for a similar position. 

I guess I must have good karma. 

Yes, I am very spiritual but my religion is NOT Christianity.  I have prayed to my Gods asking that this man find the person he is looking for.

Maybe I'm just better off working for myself.

I need to start advertising again.  I may just hire someone to do my social networking on a contract basis.  If it keeps my eyes away from the harassment, it'll be worth it.  I did find a company to do my social networking on Twitter.  So far, it's helping me stay away from the BS.  I need to find someone willing to take over my YouTube and Facebook accounts. 

*****
It's weird, I don't check my messages often. 

I did today.  One of my darling hottie gun liberal gun enthusiast buddies wants to be close friends.  He let me know two weeks ago. 

How did I miss that? 

I wouldn't have known if I weren't being messed with. 

Love ya,

S. 

***The girl Steve was chasing is still calling me, by the way.  I keep catching her in lies.  Apparently she thinks she ruined my life because of Steve.  I don't understand the details.  A blog post about that is pending.  I'm hoping I get some insight to share before hitting the publish button.

I probably won't.

I have only learned that 18 hour workdays make it impossible to answer the phone.  In cases like mine, it's a good thing. 

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