Warped Gratitude Blog

Today I am thankful for documentation. About 5:00pm, my children stated that they received a text message from their father stating that visitation had changed from Friday evening to all day Sunday. Um..... No. I tried to get him to mediate visitation.  I spent $20,000 on legal fees. He did not want to change visitation during our court hearing in November. Alrighty then,,,, I know the game. Get the custodial parent to believe visitation takes place on Sunday and then show up on Friday (according to the court order). If the kids aren't ready, then you sue her for visitation interference. It's just better to follow the court order. Besides - we have church. No. I'm paying $365 per month to pay off those legal fees. I guess I'll have to get yet another loan. Ugh... My ex claims that it is because RTD furloughed him. RTD is bragging about not having to furlough or lay off their employees. I wonder what pissed my ex off? I'd bet tha...

Today I am thankful to be overworked. In spite of the death of a close relative who we can't bury or have a service for due to the overreaction to Covid19, I'm happy to still have a job. It pays very little. I just took the job to get hours so I can sit for a licensure exam. I have enough hours now. The aunt who tried to rescue me out of foster care died a couple of weeks ago.  She fell. Kaiser Permanente was so intent on saving hospital beds for Covid19 victims, they released her from the hospital early.  They REFUSED to provide skilled nursing care (in violation of the Denver City Employee Evidence of Coverage for her plan) and a licensed social worker tried to intimidate another untrained elderly relative into providing the nursing care. I warned Kaiser that I would report the social worker to DORA. My aunt died the next day. The Coroner was so pissed off, he had a victim's advocate report everyone. I'm trying to convince her Medial Power of Att...

Today I am thankful for eagle-eye neighbors. It seems like everyone is home now that COVID19 is in town.  The kids are doing online classes and the nosy neighbors see everything. I work in healthcare so I get to work long hours.  On the bright side, I have face masks. I'm working a lot. Enter visitation. I get a call at work shortly after 4:00pm stating that my ex husband is sitting on my porch pouting. I'm unable to see his expression through the camera but I finish with my patient and call home. It appears that he showed up for his visit an hour early without warning.  The kids were doing their online class and unready to start the visit. This concerns me - His bizzare behavior seems to be amping up. Sometime in the past month, he hacked one of my store accounts and overrode my phone number with his phone number AND a phone number that we disconnected eight years ago. I remedied this by getting a new account. He sent me a snarky message last week w...