Fake Lawyer Calls

Today I am thankful I learned my computer or phone must be hacked.

I'm dumping both my android phone and my windows laptop.

I'm tired of the stupid games.

I emailed my divorce lawyer on my laptop a little over a month ago.

His legal assistant called my android phone several times.

We played phone tag.

Finally, I received a phone call from the lawyer's number about ten days ago.

The woman that called asked me a lot of personal questions about myself and my ex-husband.

The person said that they could not help me come up with a plan to remove my ex from the house or help with anything. They also told me mediation wouldn't work.

They gave me a weird number to call.

I thought the matter was settled.

They couldn't help me.

I needed a new lawyer.

Well......I did until Michael lost his job.

Now, I'm stuck.

The weird thing is that the real legal assistant called yesterday. Again, the phone number registered the same.

She said that she never spoke to me.

There is no record of anyone from her office calling me.

The number the first caller gave me wasn't hers.

The lawyer can help.

Eventually......

I should wait for Michael to get a job to save up enough money to move out.

I'm very depressed about the whole thing.

The legal assistant doesn't think that a stalker would go to such lengths to get information.

I explained to her that I've had fake insurance agents come to my door demanding entrance into my home. I've had fake cable installers.

Why wouldn't they pretend to be my lawyer's legal assistant?

The real legal assistant had some good advice for me, though.

She told me to focus on what I want.

I want the stalking to end.

She said that I need to do whatever it took to make it so.

That's the plan.

I'll let you know.

Love ya,

S.

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