Today I am thankful for rent-able dumpsters. So.... As my kids get older and start to age into adulthood, I am thankful that they are telling me things that they were afraid to tell me in their youth. I am going to need to find a way to get a good job with health insurance so I can get them decent psych benefits. I knew I needed to do this but I had no idea how bad it was. Well.... I can't walk into the kitchen without wanting to vomit. This evening, my 20 year old told me about her father watching porn at the kitchen table and.... well.... soiling the rug and the underside of what I thought was the lily white underside of my country oak kitchen table. It was hinted that he did this in the living room, too. So...the furniture and carpet have got to go. I don't know if this is true or not. Now, I have to consult with a professional to determine if this constitutes child abuse or neglect. I don't feel right quizzing the kids about this and need to ...